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Regular communication with loved ones is one of the best ways to cope with separation. If possible, try talking to your family and friends in person at least once each month by scheduling a visit or inviting them over for a weekend stay. I left my 3 daughters and my wife to take up a job in the East of Nigeria. It was an exciting feeling initially but since I arrived a week ago, I have cried like a baby every morning because I feel terribly lonely without my girls.
I just miss my baby, even though she is 28 she will always be my little girl. I’m guilty for not always wanting to be happy for her or resentful for the guy i don’t even know. Its been a rough time already hopefully it gets easier.
You Meet Different People Living Away
I wish we were moving away from family for work, that would have been easier. But things were already in motion, and my mom, who is stellar, strong, and incredible, encouraged us to go. A completely selfless act, because I am pretty sure she didn’t want me to leave . In the summer of 2012, we put our plan to move into motion. On Thanksgiving of 2012, my stepfather died, forcing my mom to move out of the home she lived in for 25 years.
As you can imagine, I was extremely torn. Should I stop the move and stay in Chicago for my mom? I felt guilty about moving away from mom even before we left America. We were happy in Chicago and very engrained.
Insights learned from moving away from our hometown.
My husband sometimes says maybe we should return to WA. Starting again at 48 is harder that I thought. I have always loved travelling and adventure but now I feel so sad being far from my close group of friends and my family.
At first, that was Colorado for five years. Then it was this nomadic lifestyle that strangely feels more like home than anything we’ve experienced before. We sadly had to leave Florida after only one year. Now we live in Southern CA, an hour’s drive from my hometown.
#9 You’ll Have More Than One Place to Call Home
Thankfully, my mom moved within a few blocks of my gramma and brother, so I felt some solace knowing they had each other. So there we were, in the throes of planning, and she was suddenly all alone. She was going through a significant life change and had to move into a new place, all by herself. And it was time to stop thinking about it and start doing it. We were both ready, and I felt like it was now or never.

Here I wrote about the considerations to have in mind before buying a car. You will need to adjust to a new climate, and I mean literally new climatic conditions. For example, olive-skinned Latin Americans like myself may require special supplements during the winter in Europe. Here I explain how Vitamin D helped me to survive the European winter. You’ll be able to set your own schedule, so you won’t have to compete with your brother over who gets to use the shower first. But when we take the time to breathe and analyze carefully whether it makes sense, there are a lot of things at stake.
We differ in our reaction to COVID and do not see eye to eye politically. We’re freedom seekers and our children are fearful. Needless to say, we do not spend quality time with them or the grandkids because they feel we are not safe. We were going to retire nearby but found we can not afford the area and want to be somewhere warmer. We never thought we’d live in Florida but we checked out the northern part of the state and found a great piece of land where we will build. Two of our 5 boys are laying on the guilt trip.
My heart ached for the Woman I was in Arizona. My expectations led to massive disappointment. I gathered the pieces and found Joy within.
Thoughts bouncing back and forth in my head what if she never comes back, maybe she will get homesick, maybe her relationship won’t work. I would look at the clock and just do nothing but calculate the time difference and be hurt when she sent us pictures of cows and buildings. I couldn’t be happy for her I just wanted my baby.
To remind myself it will be okay, but sometimes it’s hard. Anyways, I’m not sure if you’ll get this but thank you for letting me express my feelings and letting me know I’m not the only one feeling this way, Hope all is well. You have captured my feelings spot on. My husband and I are both 70 and getting ready to re-retire. We have been nomads like you for 2 and a half years of our 22 years together. For the past 10 years we have been managing self-storage facility in California, Oregon and Washington.
Mark felt ready to move a few years before me but waited patiently until it felt right for me. But after returning from Cape Town, I settled back into Chicago. I did the things I wassupposedto do in my mid-late twenties. I found a good job and started a career path. Life was comfortable and meeting Mark just solidified that for me.
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